203. In conversation with Boitumelo Mahlaba

The main points from our conversation:

Preparation is Key – Writing notes, brainstorming key points, and practicing regularly, whether in small meetings or informal settings, are essential for building confidence and improving articulation. Preparation allows you to organize your thoughts, anticipate questions, and refine your delivery, making it easier to engage your audience effectively. The more you practice, the more natural and confident your communication becomes.

Confidence Comes with Practice - Speaking up in everyday situations, such as family gatherings or team meetings, is a great way to develop public speaking skills. Confidence grows over time through consistent practice and experience. The more you engage in these small, informal settings, the more comfortable and confident you'll become in larger, more formal
speaking environments. Every opportunity to speak is a chance to refine your communication and strengthen your presence.

Reading Expands Your Vocabulary – Reading books, articles, and newspapers improves language skills and helps speakers articulate their thoughts more effectively. Learning new words and incorporating them into everyday conversations not only enhances communication but also boosts confidence in conveying thoughts with impact.

Nerves are Normal – Use Them to Your Advantage – Feeling nervous before speaking is natural, even for experienced speakers. Managing those nerves through techniques like breathing exercises, positive self-talk, and focusing on a positive outcome can help speakers stay composed. Shifting the focus from self-doubt to the message you want to share allows you to engage with the audience confidently.

Your Voice Matters – Speak Up! - Many people, especially young women in Africa, have been conditioned to stay silent. Breaking free from this mindset is essential for personal growth and fostering inclusivity in tech and beyond. By challenging the status quo, their voices can inspire others, create positive change, and pave the way for future generations to confidently take their place in spaces where they’ve been historically underrepresented.